Monday, October 18, 2010

Community

An ideal community would be just that: a community. A place where people help each other stand up instead of pushing them down to get ahead; a place where people work together instead of against each other; a place where people realize that the consequences of their actions not only effect them, but those around them as well; a place where people know their neighbor’s name; and a place where there is always someone to rely on. No, an ideal community is not like Pleasantville, one of wary perfection, because in perfection there is no room for growth. An ideal community is one of hardship and triumph, happiness and sadness, and selfless service.
In an ideal community, people would be conscientious of the world around them, aware of the suffering and pain going in far away places, not allowing themselves to just stand by and let the world turn. Life wouldn’t have to be so hard; it could be cushioned by the reliability of the family and friends around us. Instead of hoarding our monetary and intellectual wealth we would share it in whatever form suits each particular situation. We would invest our time into teaching the poor how to escape from their current realities and how to create new ones; and orphaned children would be feed both food and knowledge and be given the opportunity to be wanted and loved.
The existence of such a community would be based not upon the increasing individualism of our reality today, but upon the simplicity of a world without disruptive media. Morals and values would be upheld and played out in every day life and selfless service would not come out of obligation, but out of want and desire to help their fellow neighbor.
Churches and community centers would be a main focus. In these centers, soup kitchens would be organized, homeless would be housed, abandoned children would be cared for and counseling would be offered for those wanting to be heard. Different community service projects would always be on schedule, as well as classes on how to organize your finances, find and keep a job, and other life skills.
Such centers do exist today, but are in low attendance. In an ideal community, this would be the center of the community, the home base for neighborhood barbeques and town hall meetings, linking each member of the community into the web of diverse individuals.
This sense of community would not be exclusive, but inclusive, with its members yearning to spread their knowledge and care. It would be regular practice for these community centers to become a mobile community that would not only focus on its local members but also on potential members of other worlds; giving them the opportunity to experience a sense of belonging within their local communities.
Everyone would be of unique importance, with no one overlooked or forgotten. Absences would be noticed, because of each individual’s role in the community; in hardships, an individual would know that they are not alone and would have others to turn to; family units would be pertinent, the birthplace of morals, values and service; and religion would be a part of daily life.
A community like this may seem life a far stretch compared to the world we live in today, but it wouldn’t have to be if we focused more on the sharing message of Christ instead of our individual motives. Fortunately many of the aspects of this community do exist, but apparently not simultaneously. But that is not to say that we can’t continue to do our part in moving forward towards such a community: a place where poverty can be overcome with the power of community and selflessness.

5 comments:

Unknown said...

I love your thoughts! And you can certainly communicate them much better I can my own. Sounds pretty much an idealistic society (community), not built on socialistic concepts nor political power, but on Christian love with genuine concern and care for one another. I think the Christian church (not a building of course, but the people that make up the church) should come closest to this. But sadly, this is a broken world. Only when Jesus rules in the hearts of people will we see this ideal community come to be.I am sure the apostles envisioned this church as the type of community you describe. Realistically, this is a broken world, so don't become disappointed and critical (as many are) of the faults you find, but rather pray for the church and it's leaders, for our nation, and for what your part is in God's scheme of things. I am sure God can use you to make a difference. Whether your arena is large or small, I know that you will, indeed, make a difference! Love you girl! Keep blogging!

Mandy said...

I know it's a broken world... I've always been very aware of that, even more so since my time in Honduras.

I wrote this for an assignment on our "ideal communities"... it was supposed to be about economics, but I took it to another level... haha

But yes, no worries, I'm not disappointed or angry, just all that much more motivated to get something started!

Love you too :)

Unknown said...

I understand you weren't trying to get anything started, but I guess I just wanted to make sure you weren't disillusioned with the apathy of people in general. I, myself, need to regain the passion I once felt in wanting to make a difference. I wanted so much to see that I had made a difference in the life of a child I taught at church. I'm not sure I ever did. Perhaps I will never know. But, I think that God can and will use you to change people's lives in positive ways, which could be the best way to change their piece of the world. It's kinda like the parable of the good Samaritan. He didn't change everyone's lives, but he changed those that God gave him the opportunity to help. And as Jesus points out,this man in need was his "neighbor". We all really need community. God said in the beginning that it was not good that man should be alone. We should always strive to be a neighbor and build the bridges to make a better "community". I love the way you took your assignment up a notch. You should make a very good grade! I love you so much and I am so proud of you! If it is alright, I may get my brother in law to read your blogs. He is the best guy. He's been an awesome influence and mentor to many college kids during his40 years as English professor at Lee University in Cleveland TN. He is never condescending and always encouraging. He's retired now and teaches our Sunday School class,a truly gifted teacher. I won't say anything to him unless you give me permission, but I really think you are that good! Just let me know. I will understand if you don't want me to. I really do look forward to every new post! I'm still new to "blogs" and maybe I'm commenting too much! But forgive me if I am and let me know if I am!! I love you bunches!

Unknown said...

Hey Mandy I reread "Community" and I like it even better than the first time I read it!! Writing seems to naturally flow from you. Let me encourage to continue to express your thoughts on your blog! I love to read what you have written!!!

Mandy said...

Haha... Auntie Fay, you're so funny!
I don't know that there is a standard "comment length" haha... and if there is, who cares!
I don't care who reads this, you can tell whoever, I don't mind.
I can't promise I'll be writing much more though... this was originally my blog from Honduras and now that I'm not there I don't really have anymore stories... :/
But I'll try! haha
Have a wonderful week, love you too.